Looking and waiting


“I’m waiting here,
been waiting here”

Walking on the street, hoping to see you
Keeping myself free, hoping that you will call and say, “let’s meet up now”

Melbourne photographers are inspiring

Browsing Flickr… some of my favortites for today. CONTEXT: Melbourne.

Blood Nose

We can find beauty in pain. This Photographer took this picture while his nose was bleeding. The thought of it is eiry alright, but my point is… if we look at things from a different perspective, a really painful incident can be viewed in positive light. If everyone does that, then maybe living may not be so difficult after all.

bed stories

The intimacy and passion behind this photo intrigue me.

wakes up every morning with the person you loveslping soundly beside you is the most fortunate things on earth.

Bands of Light IIIWaiting for you to come back to me….


You Can't Park ThereHow I wish that everytime when we are lost, there is a paper to guide us along to the right path… so that we dont have to wonder around in desperation, hoping that a path suddenly emerges from the dead end..

we need a map…and a space to rest…

Melbourne City Scream'sWorries kill…

Nobody stops.

 


A great concept.

The relative insignificance of one person…

the helplessness….

tick tick tick

My paper in 5 hours time.

not Long ago, my baby leaves Melbourne for good.

well, Its not a farewell but I’m missing her already.

Can’t wait to go find her.

We took this picture on a suppppppper hot day in Melbourne after we have our dinner in Meat Wine and Co.

09/11/09

Its Summer now, I cant wait to go to the beach.

Not Hamilton, but still good. anywhere near the waves make me feel good =D

cant wait!

Wish my luck for my 2nd paper people!!

Love u~!

Alicia~

to be completely honest..

I know I haven give up.

But for now,  I know there is nothing I can do.

There are many people who dont dare to speak their mind in fear of damaging relationships,

but

I believe the more we hold back, the more it is going to harm the existing relationship.

A day of silence and of denial equates to a day of adding up to the wall of tiles that divide a relationship.

Before you know it, the wall will become so high that we can’t even see each other anymore.

I want to be honest

If a relationship is damaged because of that, I believe that I can repair it.

I don’t want to regret not being honest to my feelings.

That is the one simple reason that I say everything I want to say.


But voice…is a two-way communication channel.

“It is only when we have stopped fighting for each other that we have lost our humanity”

Sending my happy eggs to make your day

To cheer myself up.

Hope they cheer you up too =)

Eggs have so many functions.

Scrambled, poached, fried, boiled, steamed and drawn.

association of eggs? “=D”

(^^)

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Simple things can make people happy

Sometimes, more than spending a fortune on bags, clothes, accessories and shoes (plus a sense  post-purchase- guilt after all the massive shopping), seeing and creating smiley faces are all we need.

Like I say, all we need is a smile.

Stay happy… alright? =)

If you are feeling sad today, look for me.

I’ll be your shoulder to cry on, your tissues to wipe you tears and put a smile on your face at the end.

If I cant make it, I will send a smiley face for you.

Maybe some things are just not meant to be.

But u know…

As a person who is not used to not having things my way, i struggle to understand this concept. I believed that nothing was not meant to be, it simply meant that you had not tried hard enough.

well, obviously,  i guess i was wrong.

It was mere stuborn-ness. stuborrness that I cant get rid of. Until now.

I feel that Mr Tortaise is laughing at me.

Probably Im laughing at myself.

How can anyone be so stupid.

手酸了,放下就好,對待煩惱,不也是這樣?

My friend stole it from her sister’s blog, and now, i shall steal it from her blog..

..because thoughts like this should be spread around…

能解決的事,不必去擔心;
不能解決的事,擔心也沒用。
在順境中感恩、在逆境中依舊心存喜樂 ……

累了,就把心事放下來

最近認識一位美國籍的出家師父,是個很有趣的事情。
特別是他叫我舉起蕃茄汁,跟他說話的經驗。
我們約在新竹的一家茶館,用英文談論著心經,
師父用英文跟我解釋因果、輪迴這些事情,這都還不稀奇。

有趣的事情在後頭呢!
師父一聽完我跟他提到~個人煩惱的時候,
他索性要我左手提起~他剛買的三罐番茄汁,
一邊提著,一邊跟他說話。
可想而知,我左手感覺到疲勞的程度,跟時間成了正比。
也懊惱著為何師父要我一邊提著三罐蕃茄汁,一邊跟他說話。
受不了這樣的酸楚,我自行把左手放下,
卻聽到師父跟我說:
「 Hold it up, and keep talking to me. 」

聽到這樣的話,心理不免起了疑心,
我手提的那麼酸,
為何不讓我放下手上的重物,輕鬆地與他對談?
約莫過了15分鐘,我的左手實在承受不住了,
才聽見師父跟我說:「Now you can put it down」。
看著我狐疑的臉,師父居然笑了出來。

你不喜歡提著重物跟我說話, 為何你卻喜歡帶著煩惱,過著你的生活呢?

手酸了,放下就好,對待煩惱,不也是這樣?

或是這些煩惱,就像是那些番茄汁一樣,

是你自己用手把它們給舉起來的呢?

有趣的經驗,對吧?
最近我開始這樣的練習,
一手舉起有重量的東西,一邊想著事情。
手酸了,自然會放下手上的東西,

看看有一天,我會不會也學到,心累了,就把心事給放下來。

我們能很容易的放下有形的重物,

卻很難放下無形的重擔。

執著的人生~會讓自己承擔莫需有的重擔。
學習放下執著~也就在學習人生自在。